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Ummm, I believe that’s a dude. Just FYI.
She is a famous transgender actress.
I swear y’all transphobes are more eager looking for dick than us bi guys.
So I’m a transphobe for not recognizing another person’s delusion? Or for calling a spade a spade? It’s weird to pretend he doesn’t have a dick just because you can’t see it in those 2 pics, and then for you to say I’m eagerly looking for it when I’m just trying to make sure some other unsuspecting guys weren’t fooled by the folks calling this guy “her”.
Correct. Your statements reflect precisely what a transphobe is. You are a transphobe, BY DICTIONARY DEFINITION:
So what you just typed is “So I’m a transphobe for being transphobic?”
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: Yes, but so what? I don’t think being a transphobe is an evil thing. I would call it a different opinion. You happen to think that particular opinion is the correct one. As my mentor, the late, great Dalton would say, “Opinions vary.” I’m OK with transgender people, but I’m also OK with why transphobes believe what they believe.
I’m not OK with either side being intolerant of the other, or being unwilling to understand the other position, even when disagreeing with it.
And the differences in those firmly-held opinions don’t get resolved unless one of the parties changes his mind. With issues like this, that never happens.
The issue with the people who are intolerant is they try to enforce their worldview on other through force by laws. They’re more abnormal than the people they claim are deluded. No one would knowingly willingly CHOOSE to be gay or have gender dysphoria to have a more difficult life to be like that, so it’s always been stupid why people try to use force to get them to conform to binary standards.
It’s one thing to have an honest discussion about if being born male gives an athletic advantage in individual sports, but lets be honest – the people bitching about it weren’t coming from being womens swimming fans when they were doing so. The same way they weren’t visiting Confederate statues when they were taking them down.
Just another things in the grievance culture propagated by Trump, MAGA, Fox News, OANN, and the rest of the grifter crew. When the answer is, and has always been: don’t like it? Then go do it in your own life, and turn off the damn TV and shut up if someone is doing something else that has no affect on them. It’s pretty damn simple how easy that is.
That is a dude, just behind the actress’s butt.
Close. You almost got it. That’s actually 2 pictures of 2 dudes.
You appear to have the misapprehension that any of us give a flying fuck about anything that you think, but you do remind me that you MAGAt pukes do something that nothing in my 50+ years ever has – long for the recent past when neolithic, IQ-addled malcontents like yourself had to keep their repulsive opinions to themself out of fear of actual ostracism.
Now you’re cheered on by other micro-penni’d racist bitches easily led by greedy, grifting scum that *also* don’t give a fuck about what you think — but will happily take every dollar from your pocket. Morons.
Just to be clear, not everyone who disagrees with transgender ideology is MAGA. Far from it. There are more than you might think on the progressive and left side of the spectrum who disagree, or at least have doubts. We don’t speak up very much because the current approach to the issue by those on all sides simply does not allow for productive conversations.
My own view is that those who suffer from gender dysphoria are being done a substantial disservice by certain members of the medical, psychological and social service professions – as well as by members of their families and broader communities – whose primary approach is simply to ‘affirm’ their unfortunate belief. People are not ‘born in the wrong body’, nor is it psychologically or physically healthy to adopt treatment approaches that agree that they have been and to have them undergo non-medically necessary surgeries and a lifetime of hormone consumption in consequence of adoption of this fallacy. The core victims of this affirming ideology are, of course, persons who have come to see themselves as transgender and are being encouraged to face a lifetime of adverse physical and psychological consequences. But I think that society as a whole also suffers from the loss of the full benefit and productivity of persons who will spend a considerable amount of their time and energy doing harm to themselves and chasing a delusion.
To be sure, there are those within the current U.S. administration and the MAGA cult who could care less about persons suffering from dysphoria and who are happy to use the transgender issue as a political cudgel. And why wouldn’t they? — doing so was an effective political distraction that helped put them over the edge in the last U.S. election. The right wing has lost its mind in a whole bunch of ways, but as long as they can point to a way in which the left has lost its own mind, they can continue to distract the electorate from their own malevolence, mistakes, and inadequacies. It is time for the left to change its course on this issue and to abandon an affirming approach and instead to try to compassionately help dysphoric persons to accept, not fight against, the beauty of what nature has given them.
I understand the transgender position.
1. I have a woman’s brain in a man’s body, or vice versa
2. Modern medical technology offers me a chance to reconcile the two.
So why not? If I were in that position, I think I would feel the same.
But to your point, the left may have gone far past “tolerance” and into “promotion,” which is where it all breaks down. It is a complex issue. I am 100% in support if a 25-year-old male wants to become a woman, but my support really starts to fade when kids are involved. But the Catch-22, is that the later one starts, the less effective and more difficult is the transition.
Also, I understand that affirmation is compassionate, but I feel that “affirmation” should probably be the last step in a long process of evaluation and counseling, not the starting point.
As I said, it a problem that eludes simple solutions.
Certainly I think that the first step is to attempt to address the ‘brain’ side of the equation and provide therapy to encourage self-acceptance in respect of one’s body. Many or even most people have had to struggle in their own way (quite aside from ‘gender’ issues) with this self-acceptance at some point in their lives, especially in their teenage years. Learning to love yourself, very much including your body, is an important part of human development. I think that this is largely being lost with respect to gender dysphoria in the current ‘affirming’ environment.
If all else fails, then perhaps in relatively rare cases other steps have to be taken and the person will live their lives believing that they are another gender. I remember many years back in University our psychology professor telling us that a person suffering with a personal delusion – his example was a person who believed that they were Napoleon Bonaparte – might in some cases be resistant to treatment and sometimes the best that could be done was for other people to say ‘yes you are Napoleon’. Of course, that does not mean that anyone actually has to believe the guy is Napoleon…and certainly nobody is going to actually make him Emperor.
I feel similarly dealing with transgender people, including one of my own adult children, who I support financially and emotionally and with whom I maintain a good relationship. I try to address the issue compassionately and kindly, I use their identified pronouns (though sometimes I still slip up and apologize) and I say very little or nothing about my own thoughts and feelings. But do I actually believe that they ‘ARE’ the other gender that they currently identify with? Honestly, no. And am I very dismayed and saddened? Unfortunately, yes.